tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558023412158904930.post4731981860546677046..comments2023-11-08T02:46:59.622-08:00Comments on Healthy Family, Happy Life: How Do We Survive Through Hardship?Schullerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17492785568194446403noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558023412158904930.post-55815647222543768742014-08-17T08:22:15.602-07:002014-08-17T08:22:15.602-07:00I also lost my dad to a tragic accident in 2002. ...I also lost my dad to a tragic accident in 2002. It brought our family closer and my friends were very supportive. I sought professional help from a therapist I knew well. I didn't discuss the details of the accident with acquaintances. <br />Blessings to all.<br />Elizabeth<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10404476919396872245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558023412158904930.post-71955328526939632882014-08-11T12:25:42.739-07:002014-08-11T12:25:42.739-07:00Donna, here we are on a Christian page. If people...Donna, here we are on a Christian page. If people are here, not liking faith, they are wrong here. It's not always easy to give advices. People can neglect them, because it's not what they feel in their hearts or what they imagine. Or simply told, they are very different from our character traits. Conclusion we never can expect a yes, I will do it. How made us God...? Unique! --- The Bible tells us how we should live and go positive and in love towards others! BlessingSwiss Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01715278699185822467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558023412158904930.post-32003732514101101272014-08-11T11:09:30.002-07:002014-08-11T11:09:30.002-07:00Hi Rose and J.M. Thank you both for taking the ti...Hi Rose and J.M. Thank you both for taking the time to comment. Since this is just a "teaser' to what chapter 7 is all about of course you know that this is just one piece of advice out of 9 "practical hints" listed at the end of my chapter on surviving hardship. You both know me and so you also know that I like to give spiritual, emotional, and physical advice. I try never to be so spiritual that I do "no earthly good." Your comments are always appreciated. God is blessing you. DonnaSchullerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17492785568194446403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558023412158904930.post-20777981041530419872014-08-11T08:30:24.314-07:002014-08-11T08:30:24.314-07:00Good thoughts Donna and good to read as Rose added...Good thoughts Donna and good to read as Rose added, "pray and ask ' wisely ' of God.<br /><br />In hard times I have found, writing out my feelings on paper to be a way of not only "saying what I feel" without drawing in others ( who may be having emotional pain themselves), but also, it has helped me understand where and what was going on with me. Writing thoughts in poetry was good but free hand writing without "form" or trying to be too exacting, particularly helped as I rambled on with pen in hand and scrawled my heart out-then felt exhausted but much satisfied, like having run a marathon.Jan-Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14813149854030293572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3558023412158904930.post-15185486544663707022014-08-10T05:48:12.022-07:002014-08-10T05:48:12.022-07:003) "Don't share your past or your present...3) "Don't share your past or your present challenges with those whom are not emotionally equipped to handle them. Do not ask for advice from others you think are fragile or not emotionally durable or strong. Sharing your problems with someone who is not emotionally healthy can cause you more grief and can be a tipping point for the other person. This is why a professional is so important. Well-meaning friends may hurt you or unintentionally say things that make your feel worse. Be careful. Act wisely." --- Dosen't matter with whom we are sharing our problems, we always can be missunderstund and can be hurt then. It's up to our own emotions to let a message in/out our body. A male friend went to the psychiatrist, helping ment instead of speaking just medicine. For me pers. no go! Wanted to say, nobody has the right to judge and tell what is good or not. So let's pray and ask "wisely" God!Swiss Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01715278699185822467noreply@blogger.com